About Us

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Nigel Chamberlain & Partners have been serving the communities of Bishops Waltham, the Meon Valley, Wickham, Botley and the many surrounding Hampshire villages for well over 100 years and can trace their continuous history in the funeral profession back to 1892.


Bob Metcalf MBE and Lucy Guilder are ably assisted by Teresa Curran, Mark Vallence and backed by a highly dedicated team who are proud to continue the tradition of personal family care to the local community.

Bob Metcalf MBE, ARCM, Dip FD

Bob joined the Royal Marines Band Service in 1966 and served a total of 36 years, travelling to various parts of the world, including on the Royal Yacht Britannia in 1969-71. He was Director of Music to the Plymouth Players and the Dunfermline Gilbert and Sullivan Society and an Associate of the Royal College of Music. Bob was awarded an MBE in the Queen’s Birthday Honours in June 2001. With his wife Sue, they became foster carers in 1997 and is a former Chairman of Hampshire Fostering Network. In 2002 he joined the funeral profession and started working with Richard & Iain Steel, including a brief career as a Standard and Quality Manager for the National Association of Funeral Directors. With the Steel family he became manager at Roger Poat & Partners in Midhurst before moving to Nigel Chamberlain & Partners in 2014.


Lucy Guilder Dip FD

Lucy joined Nigel Chamberlain & Partners in March 2015 and comes from a family of funeral directors. She successfully completed her Diploma in Funeral Directing in October 2015. Prior to joining Bob she travelled extensively in Australia and Thailand and was employed as a manager in hospitality and catering. She is a regular visitor to her local gym enjoying both Pilates and Yoga and delights in walking with her lovely dogs Pepper and Archie.


Nigel Chamberlain & Partners started as Thomas Pink & Son in Garfield Road and moved to Rareridge Lane where Thomas Pink lived. After Godfrey Pink took over, they moved to premises in Bank Street where they remained for many years. Godfrey was well known locally and together with Derek Chamberlain served the community until their retirement in 1990.
It was at this time that Richard & Iain Steel, whose family have been Funeral Directors in Winchester since 1860, assisted Nigel & Jani Chamberlain to continue the family association with the business for a further 24 years until Nigel’s retirement in 2014.
In 2005 it was decided to relocate again to larger premises at The Gate House, Victoria Road, Bishops Waltham - having undergone a substantial refurbishment to create two private arranging rooms, Chapel of Rest, offices and garaging for the specialist vehicles together with private parking for families. The Gate House was further updated and completely refitted in 2016.